I had to tell my mother that I was temporaly taking care of Latte since she will be in SH next week to visit me.  I didn't want to "suprise" her and I don't believe Latte would have found his new home by then yet.  I expected her to be unhappy about it since she always thought too many pets is the reason T & I don't have a baby yet.  But what didn't expect is that she just said "I can't believe this, I am so disappointed, I am really angry about this." then she just hang up on me.  Frankly, I was more than hurt after she hang up.  I thought I was doing this out of a good heart, I don't expect other people to understand but I do expect my mother to understand.  She grow up with a mother who doesn't care much about pets and I knew that she always loved pets.  Then  after thinking about it more, I started to understand where she is coming from. Maybe she was mostly angry because she was worried about T & I being so tired from work has to spend more time on something else but ourselves. 

 

I texted her and also called her after one day hoping that she would "get over it."  The answer is still, very angry.  This time she started talking about how I can bring troubles to the family.  I guess I need more time to think why she is so angry.  This is very frustrating.  Way more than how I have to get up at 6 to walk the dogs and how I have to clean Latte's accident pee occasionally. 

 

I guess i am just going to take this one day at the time and hope she will get over it.  And for the time being, I hope someone with a big heart will take latte and give him a perminant home. Afterall, he is the cutest fur ball!  I wish i could keep him!